If you suspect your child has special needs or they have already been diagnosed with autism, ADHD, a learning disability, speech delay, or another developmental challenge, you may feel overwhelmed and unsure of what to do next. Navigating school-based support, psychoeducational assessments, IEPs (Individual Education Plans), and advocacy can be complicated, but the earlier you take action, the better the outcomes for your child.
This step-by-step guide will help parents understand the special education process in Ontario, particularly in the York Catholic District School Board (YCDSB), while also being relevant for other school boards.
📌 Step 1: Observe & Document Concerns (If You Suspect Something Is Wrong)
If your child has consistent struggles in school, social interactions, or daily routines, it’s important to track their challenges and progress over time.
Signs That May Indicate Special Needs:
✔ Learning Difficulties – Trouble with reading, writing, or math despite extra help.
✔ Attention & Focus Issues – Difficulty following instructions or staying on task (possible ADHD).
✔ Social & Communication Challenges – Struggles to make friends, avoid eye contact, or difficulty expressing thoughts (possible autism or speech/language delay).
✔ Sensory Sensitivities – Overreacts to noise, textures, or bright lights.
✔ Emotional Regulation Issues – Frequent anxiety, meltdowns, or difficulty adjusting to changes.
What Parents Should Do Next:
🔹 Keep a journal or digital log of behaviors and school struggles.
🔹 Speak to teachers or daycare providers about their observations.
🔹 Save samples of your child’s schoolwork or homework that highlight difficulties.
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📌 Step 2: Speak to Your Child’s Teacher & School Staff
If concerns persist, schedule a meeting with your child’s teacher to discuss their classroom experience.
Questions to Ask the Teacher:
✔ Have you noticed my child struggling in class?
✔ How do they interact with classmates?
✔ Are they meeting grade-level expectations?
✔ Have any interventions been tried?
If Your Child Already Has a Diagnosis:
✔ Inform the school about your child’s diagnosis (if you haven’t already).
✔ Ask how their current accommodations are working.
✔ Discuss whether additional supports are needed.
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📌 Step 3: Request a Psychoeducational Assessment (If No Diagnosis Yet)
If the school shares your concerns, the next step may be a psychoeducational assessment to determine if your child has a learning disability, ADHD, or other special education needs.
How to Get an Assessment in Ontario:
✔ School Board Assessment (Free but Wait Times Apply) → Request an evaluation through the school’s Special Education Resource Team (SERT). The process may take several months to over a year.
✔ Private Assessment (Faster but Costs Apply) → A child psychologist can assess your child within a few months, but it costs $2,500-$4,500. Some insurance plans may cover it.
🔹 If your child already has a diagnosis, skip this step and move to the IEP process.
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📌 Step 4: Request an Individual Education Plan (IEP)
If your child has been diagnosed or has persistent school struggles, they may qualify for an Individual Education Plan (IEP), which ensures they receive tailored support in the classroom.
How to Request an IEP:
✔ Submit a formal written request to the principal or special education team.
✔ Provide any existing medical or psychological assessments to support your request.
✔ Work with the school’s special education staff to develop the IEP.
🔗 Related Post: IEP Request Letter Template
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📌 Step 5: Identify Accommodations & Modifications
An IEP should outline specific classroom supports based on your child’s needs.
Accommodations (Changes to HOW a Child Learns)
✔ Extra time on tests and assignments.
✔ Sensory breaks or quiet workspaces.
✔ Assistive technology (e.g., text-to-speech software, audiobooks).
✔ Visual schedules and social stories.
Modifications (Changes to WHAT a Child Learns)
✔ Adjusted curriculum expectations for students unable to meet grade-level standards.
✔ Alternative learning goals, such as life skills or social development.
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📌 Step 6: Understand School-Based Support Services
Once an IEP is in place, your child may qualify for extra support within the school.
Available Support Services in YCDSB:
✔ Educational Assistants (EAs) – Provide in-class support.
✔ Resource Teachers – Work with students in small groups or one-on-one.
✔ Speech-Language Pathologists (SLPs) – Assist with speech and communication delays.
✔ Occupational Therapy (OT) – Help with fine motor skills, sensory regulation, and independence.
✔ Behavioral Support Programs – Assist students with emotional regulation and social skills.
🔗 Related Post: Resources for Students with Diverse Learning Needs
📌 Step 7: Monitor Your Child’s Progress & Advocate for Updates
Once an IEP is in place, it’s important to track progress and adjust as needed.
How to Ensure the IEP is Working:
✔ Request regular updates from teachers and support staff.
✔ Attend IEP review meetings and provide feedback.
✔ If accommodations aren’t effective, request an IEP revision.
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📌 Step 8: Explore Community Resources & Extra Support
Beyond school-based support, many community programs provide additional therapy, funding, and specialized services for children with special needs.
Ontario-Based Special Needs Support Programs:
✔ Ontario Autism Program (OAP) – Funding and therapy services for children with autism.
✔ Learning Disabilities Association of Ontario (LDAO) – Resources for children with ADHD, dyslexia, and processing disorders.
✔ Children’s Treatment Network (CTN) – Speech therapy, occupational therapy, and developmental support.
🔗 Related Post: Parent Resources for Special Needs Support
📢 Final Thoughts: Take an Active Role in Your Child’s Education
Whether you suspect your child has special needs or they have already been diagnosed, the key to success is early intervention, strong communication with the school, and proactive parental advocacy.
What Parents Should Do Next:
✅ If you suspect a learning challenge: Start tracking concerns and speak with the teacher.
✅ If you need an assessment: Request a psychoeducational evaluation.
✅ If your child has a diagnosis: Request an IEP and work with the school on accommodations.
✅ Monitor progress and advocate for updates as needed.
💬 Do you have questions about navigating special education? Leave a comment below! 🚀
Yan Zhou on Catholic Education & Advocacy 
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