Starting Kindergarten is a huge milestone — for children and parents alike. As a parent in the York Catholic District School Board (YCDSB), I went through all the excitement, worries, and lessons of that very first school year. Looking back, there are many things I wish I knew before my child’s first day. This guide is here to help new parents feel prepared, supported, and confident.

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1. The Transition Is Harder on Parents Than Kids

Most children adapt to school life much faster than we expect. The separation anxiety, new routines, and first-time experiences often weigh more on us as parents. Trust the process — teachers and Early Childhood Educators (ECEs) are trained to support your child’s transition.

Tip: Practice the school routine at home in the weeks leading up to September — bedtime, morning prep, and even packing a backpack.

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2. Communication With Teachers Is Key

Every classroom has its own style of communication. Some teachers use Google Classroom to share updates, announcements, and even homework reminders. Others rely on the traditional student agenda, where parents and teachers can exchange short notes daily. A few might also send email updates or newsletters.

Tip: Ask your child’s teacher in September what their preferred communication method is. Make it a habit to check regularly — whether that means logging into Google Classroom or reviewing the agenda each evening. A quick, consistent check-in helps you stay on top of what’s happening at school.

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3. Independence Skills Matter More Than Academics

Parents often stress about reading and math, but in Kindergarten, self-help skills are the real foundation.

• Putting on coats, shoes, and backpacks
• Opening lunch containers
• Using the washroom independently
• Asking for help when needed

These skills help your child feel confident and reduce daily stress at school.

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4. Combined JK and SK Classes Are Common

In YCDSB, it’s very common for Junior Kindergarten (JK) and Senior Kindergarten (SK) students to be placed in the same classroom. This blended approach helps younger children learn from older peers, while SK students build leadership skills by modeling routines and behaviors.

At first, parents may worry that JK students will feel “behind” or that SK students won’t be challenged enough. In reality, teachers and ECEs design activities that meet children at their own level, offering extra support where needed and extension activities for those ready to move ahead.

Tip: If your child is in a combined JK/SK class, encourage them at home by celebrating small successes. Remind them that every child learns at their own pace — whether they’re practicing letters, numbers, or social skills.

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5. Lunch and Snacks Can Be Tricky

YCDSB schools follow PPM 150 healthy food guidelines, and classrooms are strictly allergy-aware. Meals must be nut-free, and children are expected not to share food.

Tip: Practice opening lunch containers at home, and label everything. Consider the school’s hot lunch program for convenience — these programs also support fundraising.

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6. The First Report Card Might Surprise You

In Kindergarten, report cards (called Communication of Learning) focus on growth, not grades. The comments highlight your child’s social, emotional, and learning development.

Tip: Read between the lines. If you’re unsure what a comment means, set up a meeting with the teacher to discuss your child’s progress.

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7. Get Involved With the School Community

Joining the Catholic School Council (CSC) is one of the best ways to learn about how the school operates and to connect with other parents. Councils organize fundraising, hot lunch programs, cultural events, and more.

Tip: Even if you can’t commit to being on council, volunteer for one event or hot lunch shift. You’ll feel more connected, and your child will love seeing you involved.

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8. Every Child Grows at Their Own Pace

Kindergarten is not a race. Some children read early, others take longer. Some are shy, others are outgoing. The program is designed to support different learning needs — from gifted learners to those who may need extra support.

Tip: Advocate for your child if you feel they need accommodations. Ask about IEPs (Individual Education Plans) if your child requires additional support.

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9. Build Routines at Home

Consistency between home and school helps children thrive. Evening routines, regular bedtime, and morning rituals make the school day easier.

Tip: Keep school papers, library books, and backpacks in a dedicated spot at home to avoid last-minute stress.

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10. Don’t Compare Your Child

It’s tempting to measure your child against classmates, especially in a blended SK/Grade 1 class. But each child’s journey is unique. Celebrate small victories and keep the focus on growth, not comparison.

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11. The Year Goes by Fast — Enjoy It

The first year of Kindergarten is full of “firsts” — first school concert, first field trip, first friendships. Take time to enjoy these milestones, because they truly fly by.

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Final Thoughts

If your child is starting Kindergarten in YCDSB, know this: you’re not alone. Every parent feels a mix of excitement and nerves, but with preparation, communication, and trust, your child will flourish.

Kindergarten is not just about learning ABCs — it’s about learning independence, kindness, and resilience. And that’s something every parent can celebrate.